I’ll admit that stained sheets are an annoyance, but getting menstrual blood on oneself is a monthly occurrence for women, and yet we somehow manage to avoid PTSD. Understanding this, and accepting that the vagina is part of the female reproductive system and not just a sterile hole for your dick, is an important step toward becoming a man worthy of fucking.
Nov
15
2009
Nov
13
2009
The truth is, goddesses are lousy in bed.
They will do anything, it’s true.
And the skin is beautifully cared for.
But they have no sense of it. They are
all manner and amazing technique.
I lie with them thinking of your
foolish excess, of your panting
and sweating, and your eyes after.
Jack Gilbert (via aag) (via inappropria)
Nov
13
2009
Claims that health professionals ignore the sexual needs of disabled people arguably reflect a general taboo about sex and imperfection. In March this year there was much media debate after Lucy Baxter told a BBC television programme that she wanted to help her 21-year-old son Otto, who has Down’s syndrome, to lose his virginity. She said she would support him if he chose to visit a prostitute.
The fact that this made headlines suggests a perception of sex as something that only “perfect” people can enjoy.
Nov
08
2009
The people of Britain are happy (or not) because of Tolpuddle Martyrs, Chartists, infantry regiments, any number of ancestors who made the world more comfortable for them. And we, gay people, are happy now (or not) in large part thanks to Stonewall rioters, Harvey Milk, Dennis Lemon, Gay News, Ian McKellen, Edwina Currie (true) et al, and the battered bodies of bullied, beaten and abused gay men and women who stood up to be counted and refused to apologise for the way they were. It has given us something we never thought to have: pride.
Oct
30
2009
“I am at heart, a gentleman.” - Marlene Dietrich
(via genderconfusion: byronic: oldhollywood)
Oct
30
2009
The woman who needs to be liberated most is the woman in every man, and the man who needs to be liberated most is the man in every woman.
Magnus Hirschfeld (via reckless-abandon)
Oct
27
2009
Some day people will grow up and realize that the only thing vile about human bodies is the small minds some people have developed within them.
Dick Hein (via lucidtruth) (via seaofsin)
Oct
22
2009
Just as some anti-sexuals can’t see a female breast, hear the word “penis,” or see two men holding hands without thinking SEX, some people can’t hear about sex without thinking DANGER. A coalition of well-meaning professionals, cynical politicians, end-of-days religious leaders, and frightened lay people has turned ordinary sexuality into a public health crisis. Their anti-secular, anti-democratic, anti-teen, anti-woman solutions are damaging our nation, our relationships, and our children far more than mere sexuality possibly could.
Oct
20
2009
This would be hilarious if it wasn’t so fundamentally and painfully stupid. Repeat after me:
“Not all women’s bodies are the same. Not all men are the same.”
Generalizing about both at the same time is a good way to be extraordinarily wrong. Guess what? A fair segment of women enjoy both being bitten quite hard and the marks that come with it. Sure, it’s helpful if they can be hidden, but don’t knock it just because it’s not your personal bag. And some women get off on having men cum on their faces (or elsewhere). Just ‘cause you don’t like it doesn’t mean you get to stop everyone else doing it—unless you’re the Catholic church in the Middle Ages.
On the other side of things, speaking as a guy, I find advice much easier to swallow (har de har) when it doesn’t come in the form of a caustic ejaculation that assumes I’m only there to be a receptacle for it. Seems like you’re doing to men verbally a lot of what you have a problem with guys doing to you physically.
In other words, if you and your man (or whatever) are having some problems in the bedroom, try talking to him (or hir) like a human being. You may find that he’s more inclined to treat you the same way. Or not, if that’s your thing.
Oct
13
2009
Durham disagrees. Girls do not need “rescuing” from sex, she says. Merely the media’s one-dimensional, profit-driven version of it, which is based purely on male fantasies without a nod to female needs or desires.
Rather, girls should be encouraged that it is their right to enjoy it, thus reclaiming their sexuality from a culture that increasingly positions them as passive, objectified sex kittens who are not encouraged to actually want sex or get any pleasure from it yet are mandated to be desirable to males — to look up for it but not, of course, act on it, for that would be sluttish.
Curing the Lolita complex (via gauntlet) (via igather) (via materialworld) (via tiredofbeingignored)
Oct
09
2009
Well, I don’t think fabulousness and camp are superficial because people are being murdered around the world constantly for being fabulous and camp. Any type of feminine, outrageous, or unusual expression is basically license to kill.
Justin Bond, interview with The Advocate (via noteasybeingred)
Oct
07
2009
I want to disrupt this idea that cocks specifically and penetration in general is a male, masculine, or man’s trait. I mean I get it: when considering human genitalia, the man is the one with the penis, the woman is the one with the vulva. But men have holes that feel good when penetrated, too, and women have fingers and tongues and sometimes clits big enough to penetrate, and a long history of dildoes, and then of course there’s the strap on cock, for when we really want to feel what it’s like to swing from the hips.
Oct
01
2009
Heterosexual, monogamous marriage simply doesn’t work for everyone, but society all but demands that we live in one - or, at the very least, in the illusion of one. If open relationships were seen as an equally viable and acceptable option, I’d like to think that people would be able to make choices that really work for them, choices that actually are choices as opposed to simply doing something because that’s what everyone else is doing.
Sep
29
2009
Bisexual women are ‘celebrated’ by men on Facebook and in real life, while many of us find ourselves unable to truly be proud of our sexuality, finding it easier to identify as straight or gay instead. Popular culture virtually ignores us, except where sexualised images can be used to appeal to a straight male audience. In an increasingly tolerant age, bisexual women remain misunderstood, misrepresented, and disrespected by both gay and straight communities.
Sep
28
2009
I am always annoyed when people shame girls and women by calling them sluts. The very premise rests on the idea that sex is something that degrades women, which is a facet of sex-negativity. In a sex-positive world, calling someone out for having sex would make as much sense as calling them out for breathing or eating.
Dr. Charlie Glickman - Slut Shaming Doesn’t Sparkle (via tiredofbeingignored)
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